Today I am hosting Ronel Janse van Vuuren. She is talking about a very important topic. Welcome, Ronel!
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I read a meme a while back that said something
in the line of: if you are going to walk in someone else’s shoes, better get
far away before they notice the theft.
The conversation about diversity is easy: when someone
talks about being marginalised for some reason, you simply switch topics by
saying you are feeling uncomfortable. Like avoiding your discomfort is more
important than acknowledging someone else’s Truth.
But even if you push past your comfort zone in
reality and fiction, do you have true empathy? And what does that mean? Writing
about uncomfortable truths? Having a diverse cast of characters in your novel?
Yes, we need diverse books. https://www.ronelthemythmaker.com/diversity-in-fiction-live-booklaunch-heavensgtvenue/
Yes, we need to talk about uncomfortable
truths. https://www.ronelthemythmaker.com/hot-button-issues-live-booklaunch-heavensgtvenue/
And we should never get complacent. Especially
in our writing. Or we might end up like Thoreau…
“Nature and human life are as various as our several constitutions. Who shall say what prospect life offers to another? Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other’s eyes for an instant?”
– Walden, Thoreau
Sounds good, right? Sounds like it will change
the world, right? Pft! True empathy doesn’t come from knowing exactly how
something feels for someone else: it’s messy, painful, and hard.
“…autobiography is irresistible… Even in actual life egotism is not without its attractions.”
– The Critic as Artist, Oscar Wilde
Walking in someone else’s shoes will lead to
calluses, athlete’s foot, and criminal prosecution. Not to mention a mental
breakdown. It’s the fine line between empathy and appropriation.
But stories…! When we read, we can understand
in our unique, flawed ways the experience of another person. No two people get
the same thing out of a story – everyone gets touched by a different aspect.
And when we write and share our stories, we
help others grow. Empathy is messy, painful and hard. It’s uncomfortable. So,
too, is sharing our Truth. But that is where the true miracle Thoreau was
seeking lies: making the world a better, more empathic place one story at a
time.
Writing Magic
at Midnight wasn’t easy. Sure, I had loads of fun with most of it. But
writing about Amy’s identity… I got pushed past my comfort zone. What do I know
about being bisexual? I tried – and thankfully failed – to change the romance
elements in the book. To get it right, I read. A lot. And came to understand
Amy.
Stories CAN change your worldview.
Stories CAN make the world a better, kinder
place for all.
BETRAYAL.
CONSPIRACIES.
MAGIC.
Amy has only known one life. Now she needs to put it all on the line to save what is precious to her. Can this simple farm girl survive court-life? Can she stop a war from burning down her world? And what of the mysterious princess of Hazel Wood and her covert glances…? Not to mention the prince of Acacia Wood who might or might not be involved with the prophecies ruling their kingdoms. With mysteries and secrets threatening the life she longs to return to, can she separate her feelings from the mission?
TO WHAT LENGTHS WILL SHE GO TO SAVE HER LOVED-ONES?
About
the Author:
Award-winning author Ronel Janse van Vuuren
mainly writes for teens and tweens, though she is known to write
mythology-filled short stories for anthologies aimed at older readers. Her dark
fantasy works, usually full of folklore, can be viewed on her website and on
Goodreads.
Ronel can be found tweeting about writing and
other things that interest her, arguing with her characters, researching
folklore for her newest story or playing with her Rottweilers when she’s not
actually writing.
All of her books are available for purchase
from major online retailers.
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Please leave a comment for Ronel!
Great post and info. A very enjoyable story.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Juneta :-)
DeleteWe need diversity everywhere. One story at a time, I suppose.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely, Liz.
DeleteDiversity is what makes us interesting!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely, Elizabeth!
DeleteGetting out of comfort zone often pushes us to do better than we imagined.
ReplyDeleteVery true, Damyanti :-)
Deleteyour opening put a smile on my face. i LOVE that gorgeous cover...and unicorns, oh my...
ReplyDeletesherry @ fundinmental
Thanks, Sherry!
DeleteI think you cured me from using that cliche, “Try walking in someone else’s shoes”. Of course, most other people’s shoes are too small for me.
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Great post. "It’s the fine line between empathy and appropriation," sums it up.
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