January 07, 2025

Writer Friends Challenge #WritersFriendChallenge

 

Last year, I stumbled upon an Instagram challenge that takes place monthly. 

#WriterFriendsChallenge

I saw someone I follow posting daily for it, but I don't remember who it was. (Sorry, if it was you.) I'm always looking for some kind of content to do for my Instagram, a way to promote my books or current projects without being too salesy or pushy, and I definitely enjoy connecting with other writers.

June was the first month I joined in on the challenge. Since then, I've participated every month and will continued to do so as long as the challenge keeps on going.


I learned a few things along the way:

1. You do not have to participate every single day. If a prompt stumps you, doesn't work with your books/projects, or you're just too busy, you can skip it. You can skip several. It's okay.

2. When you post, add the hashtag #WriterFriendsChallenge to be discoverable, but also click "Tag a Person" and tag the challenge's account @writer.friends.challenge. This is additional discoverability.

3. When you look for people posting, don't just go to the #WriterFriendsChallenge. Also go to the account @writer.friends.challenge and click on the tag symbol with the outline of a person. (Tip: It's directly above the posts, to the right. You'll see one other option that's 9 stacked squares. Tags is to the right of those 9 stacked squares.) When you go there, you'll find the other people who tagged the account in their post. This is the best way to find the most current posts since the hashtags do not give you the option to see recent posts as they used to, so you'll see posts for months and years past all mixed up. Not ideal when you want to see new posts.

4. Just like with a blog hop, the thing to do is to like the posts and follow the participants.

5. But you gotta build relationships. Liking and following is nice, but you have to do more than that to build a connection. Comment on posts and reply back to comments that you get. Sometimes, if you don't have anything to add, a simple, "Thank you!" is enough.

6. Just like with all challenges and relationships, it takes time. So, the first few months, I didn't have as much engagement. I also think that the challenge was a bit smaller then. It has grown since I started to participate, because the more writers who join it, even more writers are able to find out about it. Finally in October, I started to get real, genuine engagement on my posts from people who sound truly interested in my current projects. That was a HUGE change. It shocked me and equally delighted me.

7. Have fun with it.


January 2025 Prompts:



These were the prompts for the last four months of 2024:







Some of my recent favorite posts:

Clickable if you’d like to read the captions.














December 17, 2024

Best of Write with Fey 2024

 

BEST OF WRITE WITH FEY 2024


Works-in-Progress:

Take a Peek into My Work-in-Progress: Find Ivy

Take a Peek into My Enemies-with-Benefits Story


Writer's Life:

My Writing and Publishing Roadmap

What Rejections Still Hurt?

Learning to Read was a Struggle


Blogging:

My Blog's Top 13 Posts of All Time

Chrys' Top 13 Blog Post Picks


Movie Love:

Movie Lists Fun (Childhood Favorites, Comfort Movies, All-Time Favs)

How Did the Movie Pitch Black Inspire me?

How Did the Movie UltraViolet Inspire Me?

How Did the Movie Matrix: Reloaded Inspire Me?

How Did the Movie Van Helsing Inspire Me?

How Did the Movie Gothika Inspire Me?


Author Life:

This Promo Thing Is Crap

Desperate Is as Desperate Does

The "Gift" That Keeps on Giving

It's Challenging, Don’t You Think?

Listen. I'm Saying It Again.


Random:

Let's Talk Taylor Swift

The Disaster Curse is now FREE FOREVER!

Space is Hard / Writers on the Moon


Grief Work & Healing Journey:

A - ASMR

B - Beach

C - Church

D - Donating

E - Epistle (Letter from Heaven)

F - Facebook Posts

G - Grief Share

H - Haiku Poetry

I - Imari

J - Job (New Job)

K - Kitchen Time

L - Ladybug Rocks #LadyBugRocksFL

M - Miracle Moments

N - Nature

O - Our Story (Keepsake Journal)

P - Playlist + Photo Collages

Q - Quiet (Reading) Time

R - Removing and Redecorating

S - Sammy the Teddy Bear

T - Tauren Wells "Joy in the Morning"

U - Use + YOU

V - Videos of Wildlife

W - Wellness Journal

X - X Out Certain Thoughts

Y - Yahtzee

Z - Zoo Trip


Looking Toward to 2025:

I have two post ideas to share in January, but as far as any other blogging plans for 2025...I don't really have any. I won't even be participating in the April Blogging from A to Z Challenge. It seems that I do it two years in a row and then don't participate for a few years, so I guess I'm on par.

For 2024, I didn't have a plan come January, but I ended up getting ideas for posts, as you can see with the lists above.

For 2025, my 13th year of blogging, I don't know what I'll be doing here.

I still have one feature idea that I've been mulling over for a couple of years now. This feature wouldn't be for writers/authors. They'd be more for girls/women. It'd be memoir style like Caitlin Moran’s How to be a Woman. So that means there will be stories about my childhood and growing up as the youngest sister. I mean, I have an essay about shaving, so yeah. HAHA. There's also stories about living without electricity and without a bed, etc. I'm still not sure if I'll do this, but I don't know what else I'll do with this content. Once, I thought I'd publish a memoir, but I don't want to do that anymore. My blog is the only other place I can think of sharing these essays. I'll continued to mull it over.


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HAPPY HOLIDAYS!




December 10, 2024

Listen. I'm Saying It Again.

 

I'm sharing a few posts for Ghost of Death and Witch of Death, the final stories I promoted this year in an effort to promote my published work that was an epic failure.

Yup, it's the broken record again.

How pathetic this made me feel makes me not want to promote my work on social media ever again. Especially when trying to get interest in works-in-progress is also an epic failure. It's a huge letdown how these platforms are run and how the algorithms ruin everything. I know so many authors/writers who no longer want anything to do with Instagram because of how their posts get buried or are never shown to our followers.

Anyway, the graphics below are clickable if you want to see the captions on Instagram.

I hope you enjoy!

Let me know your favorite quote/graphic in the comments. 😊


WITCH OF DEATH






GHOST OF DEATH








December 02, 2024

It's Challenging, Don’t You Think?

 

This year, I participated in a lot of monthly Instagram challenges with daily prompts. It was a tactic I was trying to see if it'd help my engagement on Instagram. I didn't post every day in these challenges, although I certainly tried in the beginning until...

I noticed that my engagement wasn't much different, even when I did two challenges in the month of August (with some posts tying together both challenges). At that point, I started to just do the prompts I thought looked like fun, especially if they were about our characters or our stories.

I'm going to save those posts about my characters and works-in-progress for another time, maybe when I'm closer to publishing those stories *insert hysterical laughter here*, but here are some of the posts that I did that I really liked.

They are all hyperlinked if you'd like to read the captions on Instagram. 😊
















November 19, 2024

The "Gift" That Keeps on Giving


Last month, I shared a few of my favorite posts for Hurricane Crimes, Seismic Crimes, and Tsunami Crimes from my failed promo efforts in this post: Desperate Is as Desperate Does.

The annoyance I have for my failed promo efforts from this year is the "gift" that keeps on giving.

Now, I am sharing a few posts for Flaming Crimes, Frozen Crimes, and A Fighting Chance. They are clickable if you want to see the captions on Instagram.

I hope you enjoy!

Let me know your favorite quote/graphic in the comments. 😊



FLAMING CRIMES







FROZEN CRIMES







A FIGHTING CHANCE








November 05, 2024

Desperate Is as Desperate Does


In a previous post, This Promo Thing Is Crap, I talked about my failed promo attempts on social media for all of my published stories and how Instagram's algorithms are horrible and make everything worse.

That's why I've decided to share a few of my favorite posts for Hurricane Crimes, Seismic Crimes, and Tsunami Crimes right here in this post. They are clickable if you want to see the captions on Instagram.

I hope you enjoy!

Let me know your favorite quote/graphic in the comments. 😊


HURRICANE CRIMES







SEISMIC CRIMES







TSUNAMI CRIMES